Murry, R. Maybe this may sound wrong to most men reading this post, but I think it is wrong for a 40 plus man to date a woman 10 years younger than him. When he loves you unconditionally, he will do all of the above things and more. People only grow apart because they get selfish. Separate bedrooms, no more anything together.
Just a thought.
You married a younger woman. I feel like this one is really simple because everyone has to walk through doors. I am a child of parents with a large age gap.