I find that I can have stronger orgasms while being penetrated anally, but these are clitoral or vaginal orgasms, not anal orgasms—those are quite elusive. Like a lot of deep breathing and you have to let everything go. I dunno what is really happening down there but it darn works! To get set up in this position, you just need to lie down on your stomach, keep your legs together and relax. If we are gonna talk about anal sex lets at least be open minded about it.
Following recommendations for adequate lubrication and relaxing the anal sphincter with manual stimulation is important.
In the Jockey position, your man is going to have all the control and can pound you quite hard or softly, depending on what you enjoy the most. It may seem taboo, but behind closed doors, it turns out that more than 1 in 3 women ages 19 to 44 have tried anal sex at least once, according to a survey published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Vigorous jamming of fingers anywhere should not happen immediately.