I love stories like this and learn so much from them. I know people get blinded by romance but I would like to thank you for giving advice not to let your friends influence your happiness. I had to tell him because I felt like I was cheating. I met this guy but he lives on the other coast. Maybe your time limit is longer than six months.
And note if he starts getting irritated or moody about the discussion, because being a male he does not want to be held to any obligations.
Should I continue dating a man if I am not physically attracted to him? If not, there is usually a problem. Thank you again!