There's no way to know what is going on in their lives to prompt their lameness. Say hello and i will Say hey. Many have their list of things they want 'done to them. I work in corporate IT management and Twincities being small for management consulting, I have to be little discreet about my fitness modeling! What I was not prepared for were the copy-pasters, the virus transmitters, the people who apparently send identical messages or gently mutated versions thereof to the owner of every female profile they can find. One guy, an editor in Brooklyn, had gotten to the point where we'd been texting and planned to meet up until he decided that "we live too far apart. At first, I'd focus on something that seemed important to both of us, mince in something flirty, and sign off with a question so that he'd feel more of a pull to respond.
Out of those 13 guys, only seven messaged a second time after I'd responded to them, and out of those guys, only five asked me out. Very attractive.