Asking someone if they would like to go out with you is dating. Just own it, you don't want to seriously date or meet someone. Seamless-ing brunch does not a date make. This one is important. I guess people think it makes you seem desperate. Instead, they specifically ask for your opinion. The only place to satisfy all of your guilty pleasures.
If it's a date, then I am.
Even so, a guy who is conscious of his body language will try to look you in the eyes at least a few times to communicate his interest in you. HEAR stands for highlight, explain, apply, and respond.